Interview Series: Bridget Blonde

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hi i’m bridget blonde / i’m 29 from houston, texas / i was a model and i am the owner of a clothing brand called the blonde locks

are you currently dating?

i am currently unavailable, yes.

how long have you been seeing this guy?

i guess i’ve known him for 7 years, but it’s only recently that we’ve started seeing each other. he lives in houston and i’d see him when i went back to visit. he basically cornered me and told me everything i’d ever wanted to hear.

have you ever done long distance before?

i have and it didn’t work out for me because i’m an ‘out of sight, out of mind’ type of person. it is what it is, but the goal is to be together, so right now i’m just going to continue to do what i’m doing. but i’m not going to lie there are distractions here…

how do you deal with the distractions?

well like i said, it is what it is… i just kind of do what makes me happy, which some people might not agree with, but it’s my life. i don’t have a ring on my finger, but my heart is somewhere else. i feel like this last relationship i was in was my most serious relationship.

how long were you with this person?

like 3 months, but then i waited for him for like a year and a half. he had cancer and just recently passed.

i’m so sorry for your loss. no one should have to go through something like that.

it’s weird, i had already been dealing with it for so long. when i tattooed my head for him that’s when i kind of started the grieving process and moving on because it was only getting worse… i could only hold on for so long… i don’t want to sound like a bummer, but sometimes i ask myself who could i ever give myself to again after i already feel like i’ve had that ‘one’ you know? so technically to me, everyone only gets second best of me because i gave myself completely to the man who passed. if you only get that one time, then i feel like i’ve already had mine.

i feel you. you never know though, you might meet someone who you can still learn from and grow with? it’s always good to have hope. do you believe in true love and marriage?

i definitely do. however, i’m more of a realist than a romantic. every girl wants to be swept of her feet. i’m very into guys that open doors, etc. that’s the texas in me. i like to be treated like a woman even though i’m the boss. i don’t want to be the boss in the bedroom or on the daily with my dude, you know? i want him to take control. i don’t know… i definitely do believe in love, but i wouldn’t date anyone who had been married before or who has kids. but i’m getting older! it’s a slim dynamic haha. i mean i already come equipped with two dogs, that’s kind of a lot.

what’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?

umm… honestly i don’t think i’ve really gone on any bad dates, and if i have i don’t remember them, so they couldn’t have been that bad. i mean i’ve had some things… the first date i ever had (with one of my major exes of four years) he forgot his wallet… i mean i kind of just chalk it up to like ‘well that sucks i guess i just won’t talk to you ever again’. so i don’t know if i’ve ever really had a bad date.

that’s good! do guys ever approach you or seek you out because of your modeling career?

oh yea. i’m usually pretty nice about it. it doesn’t really freak me out because i put myself out there. i mean when people come up to me it’s like i know they’ve seen me so it’s whatever. it doesn’t really freak me out and i’m not rude about it. i think it’s flattering, unless they get creepy. if they get creepy then that’s weird and i’m like ‘gotta go!’ and walk away haha. i always try to leave a good impression though. i’m pretty humble.

that’s the best quality to have. so what’s it like being a female in the male dominated skate world?

it’s fun just because i am super tomboy and i get along with a lot of the dudes. i’m the number one wingman. i love to get my friends fucked – and i love girls, so when a hot chick likes girls it’s easy to pull in girls and make them feel comfortable. we always used to have the late night party at my house and i would always put girls in lingerie immediately when we got home. i’d be like ‘either we are going to keep this party going and have fun or everyone has to leave’ haha. it’s fun. sometimes i feel like i don’t fit in – i’m not really streetwear, i’m not really a roxy – i’m still trying to find my place. i’m just my own thing.

it’s good to be different! how do you balance being a chill tomboy and a sexy bombshell?

i don’t really feel like i’m balancing, it’s just who i am. i turn it on for a camera or whoever i want. i guess it’s almost like multiple personalties in a way (not the crazy kind though) where i wake up and i am whoever i want to be that day. somedays i’ll wake up and i’ll do my make-up and put on a crazy outfit and strut all day long and wear my red lipstick, and then somedays i run around in my workout gear all day long because i’m running errands and getting shit done. so i don’t really know if i know how to balance it… i guess it’s just on a day to day basis. i like to keep people on their toes! you never know what i might show up in.

it’s fun to branch out and do different looks. i get bored wearing the same thing everyday. how can a guy get your attention?

i mean you can always buy someone and her friend a drink.

thank you haha.

it’s very simple. ask and then right there you have at least a few seconds with me so come up with something quick haha. i don’t know i mean if they said something funny… but nothing about my tattoos – if they bring up my tattoos i’m out.

what are some turn ons and turn offs for you?

turn ons… i love a man who knows how to speak to a woman in a way that is aggressive, but not demeaning. you can call me whatever you want in bed. i feel like i just walk around turned on haha. my sex drive is through the roof. i have to masturbate four times a day – before shower, after a work out, before i go to bed, etc. i’m just always sexually driven. i can get turned on by almost anything. i can’t think of i specific thing that if i wasn’t in the mood that would get me turned on. just bend me over i guess? or if your face can make its way to my inner thighs without me closing them, that’s a good sign. biggest turn on is waking up to a hard dick.

i feel like morning sex is underrated.

do not sleep over if you don’t want to have sex in the morning. because otherwise i will say goodbye at night. i’m very dude-ish when it comes to how i feel about sex and things like that. cuddling is more of a new thing to me… i cuddle with my dogs, but i literally feel like i can’t move. sometimes i just like to have my space. turn offs… food in their teeth. if you have food in your teeth and i don’t feel comfortable telling you and making a little joke out of it then i probably shouldn’t be out with you. also, if their ears are dirty. i cannot fuck with you if your ears are dirty and i can see shit in them. i just can’t fuck with it. bow legs – i don’t fuck with a dude with bow legs or skinny legs. i’m thick so i need a dude who can throw me around. another turn off is a dude that’s super drunk or a dude that’s super cocky like he’s too cool. i don’t get that, like how are you that cool that you can’t even say hi to me? small dicks are also a turn off… more like a walk out the door. also, i always offer to pay for my meal, so a turn off would be a guy who invited me out to dinner and then let me pay for my meal.

the offer is nice, but if it’s a date… c’mon! be a gentleman. how did you lose your virginity?

fuck… i don’t even remember. i think it was with my first boyfriend. i was 18. it’s so weird i just feel like i forgot a bunch of stuff from when i was 24 and younger because i was just fucked up. i was just doing fucked up shit. i wasn’t doing drugs or anything like that, i was just bad. i just had something to prove… i was just angry. i had never gone down on a guy or anything like that, and i was accused of doing that when i was in high school (9th grade) because i had a cold sore, so i forever had a weird thing with that. i didn’t even have my first kiss until i was 16. i was like really, really, really prude – i was terrified to do anything. i just had a bad rep. everyone thought i was a slut and it sucks because i wasn’t doing anything…

that’s crazy. kids can be so cruel in high school.

you can’t defend yourself in high school because no one believes you.

kids are fucking mean. why are kids so mean? i can’t fuck with it.

and like why is that even anybody’s business? if i want to be a slut, let me be a slut. what does it matter?

exactly. to quote the pack ‘it’s my pussy, i can do what i want.’ how’s your sext game? do you like to sext?

oh yea. i’m in a long distance relationship – my sext game is on point. i send mad videos… mad videos. i’ll be feeling sexy and shoot a little video to send to my guy. i’m all about allusion to something. so when i’m shooting i’m imagining fucking somebody, that’s just how i get off in a photo. you know what i mean? that’s how i bring out the sex kitten kind of thing. i used to always think about people i’ve never fucked, but now and again i think of someone i’ve been with. it’s all a fantasy. i love to flirt over the phone, sometimes with a couple people. i like the little attention, it’s fun. fuck… i wonder how many people have pictures of my boobs haha. you can’t even find my boobs online, but if you went through some of my friends phones…haha. i just randomly send pictures of my boobs to my girl friends because i think it’s hilarious.

do you like dick pics? what are your thoughts?

i’ve never liked getting dick pics until my dude in houston. i feel like i missed out on something if he doesn’t send me his morning boner pic.

what do you like in bed? do you have any fetishes?

i like to slap and be slapped. my face or my butt – always the butt. i like need to be spanked. the slapping is kind of more of a drunk thing. i like to slap the shit out of somebody. i only do it to see if they’ll do it back. it’s kind of like a tester. i don’t want them to slap me hard in the face, it’s more about the sound anyways, just a little pop! i like to be held down or anything that just makes me feel helpless. i like agressive, but not rough. i don’t want bruises or anything like that, but i want it like you’re fucking me with a purpose. hard and fast – give it to me.

how do you feel about dating sites?

i’ve never used them. a bunch of my friends are on this one that’s called tinder. i’ve thought about being on them because i’m down for new experiences and i like meeting people, but then what happens when people find out i’m on there? it could get kind of creepy. i’ve had stalker issues in the past, i’m not trying to have that happen again. i’ve watched way too much law & order svu.

have you ever kissed a girl before?

i used to fuck girls with a dude. we would tag team girls from clubs… for a long time, actually. i still like girls. i don’t really fuck with them on that level anymore. every now and then i’ll make out with one. if it’s going to be fun and a good time i’m down for whatever pretty much. i like the tease of it all. i like to turn everyone on. i like for everyone to feel like they have a chance.

so you used to strip when you were younger… tell me more about that.

i stripped from 18 to 22. i was angry and whatever, so three days after i graduated high school i jumped out of my mom’s house, i got this apartment, i was working at hooters and i wanted to start getting tattoos (texas hooters doesn’t allow that). every bangin’ girl in houston was either a stripper or a hooters girl because there’s so much money to be made, it’s ridiculous. i was fine dancing on stage at the strip club, i had an issue with the private dances because in texas a lot more goes on during the dances. i don’t know how the strip clubs are out here because i’ve only been a customer, and from what i’ve noticed guys don’t seem to get away with a lot of stuff, but in texas you danced in a room with no one else in it, so a lot of the girls were doing other stuff… but yea… stripping definitely changed my life, i was just really naive. i had applied to be a waitress and then made me into a stripper. i had already been struggling with my sexuality (being called a slut etc. during high school) so i kid of had an issue being a stripper, but some of the things i learned – like how to be sexy and command a room – i don’t mind. there are two kinds of strippers: one with goals, and ones without who are looking for someone to save them. for me, it was always means to an end. i was dating a football player for the texans that eventually got me to quit. so i stopped and started bar tending instead. then i started modeling a little and realized that i was pretty good at it and made something out of it. i had always wanted to move to LA so i packed up my things and got a bar tending job out here and i slanged drinks for the first two years i was here and kept modeling all the time. finally i was able to only model and quit my bar tending job and that was about four years ago. to me, i just feel like being a stripper was such a huge part of my life for me to come from and to now have built this life. i mean i could go back to it and make way more than i’m making now, but i’d rather struggle and really work for what i want. i feel like stripping is so easy to get sucked back into, that’s why i don’t want to have to depend on that kind of money because it’s never enough. i’d rather have to figure out how to sell 100 t-shirts or book more shoots. honestly, i feel like stripping gave me an insight to how men really are. i know how sleazy they can be. i know how to keep one happy. the dudes that are unhappy going to strip clubs are because their wives are boring or not putting out. yes, i will show up to your door in lingerie and let you fuck the shit out of my in the doorway. whatever we need to do to keep a relationship popping, i’m down. i have mad ideas to keep a dude happy. a woman should really thrive off the fact that their dude is so into them he wouldn’t even think about fucking another woman.

if you don’t want to keep your man happy, you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship with him. do you have any final words/last thoughts on sex/relationships/etc.?

you love me in leather, you love me in lace, you’re going to love me when i sit on your face.

<3

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