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Interview Series: AJ Weathers

  • Shelby Sells
  • Oct 20, 2013
  • 5 min read

PHOTO: SHELBY SELLS

state your name / age / occupation

my name is AJ / i’m 22 / i’m a fashion designer, fashion consultant, stylist extraordinaire

what’s it like being a guy in the fashion industry?

as far as school goes, i go to fashion school, there’s nothing but females at that school. i don’t know there’s love there but… being a dude in the fashion word is chill, especially a straight dude because there’s not a lot of us. it’s pretty chill there’s no problems.

do you think you get more play because you work in the fashion industry?

nah, i think it’s all pretty much the same haha.

have you ever hit it and quit it?

yea. i have actually. oh shit haha. the first time i hit it and quit it was when i lost my virginity and shit. that shit was crazy. i was 16. i went to this party with my cousin all the way in pasadena. it was a far mission from long beach. we get up there and there’s all these ratchet hoes. my cousin tells me that if anything happens (with a girl) i can take his keys and go to his car and handle business, and i’m like cool. so i’m chillin, drinking hella erk and jerk (e&j) and sprite, buzzing, and this chick walks up and tries dancing with me and shit. she gives me this lap dance and i knew it was about to go down. i was a virgin so i was like ‘oh shit! it’s happening right now!’ i’m so toe up. she’s like ‘let’s go to the car’ so i grab my homies keys (i don’t know how to drive) and we get outside and she tells me i have to move the car because it’s right in front of everybody. so i’m trying to figure out this car (she thinks it’s my car haha) and i’m trying to put the key in the ignition trying to start it up. the windows are all fogged up and i couldn’t find the defroster so i’m driving blind as fuck. i finally pulled into a cut and shit went down. it was crazy though because i didn’t know how to drive i was just a little nigga and she kind of took advantage of me because she was older. it is what it was.

she just climbed on top of you and did her thing?

yea that’s how it happened. in the back seat. we went back to the party and that was it. i don’t even know her name. she’s just some girl. she straight swiped me. it kind of sucks because i don’t know her name and she’s the first but… it is what it is. shit happens.

PHOTO: SHELBY SELLS

did you start having sex regularly after that?

yea then shit popped off. i went back to (high) school with a whole new mind set, a whole new nigga. it was a game changer. it’s funny because it seemed like most females were flocking to me after that haha.

they knew! haha. have you ever gone home with someone and not remembered in the morning?

nah. honestly no haha. no mistakes.

how do you go about meeting girls?

usually when i go out to spots. i talk to them and get a good conversation going. i really like when i’m at a spot and i lock eyes with someone – that shit is crazy because we’re not saying anything, we don’t know each other.

do guys dish details about hooking up, dates, etc.?

it depends on who the chick is. if it’s a one time thing i’ll definitely dish it with the homies like ‘yea that’s where i was last night’ but if it’s with someone i’m kicking it with then i’m not going to dish any details. that’s kinda low-key sacred.

have you ever been in love before? or been in a serious relationship?

nah i haven’t been in a long term relationship. i’ve been in a relationship where i thought i felt something, but it didn’t end up going right. i’m not the type for that ‘fall in love’ stuff.

why?

i don’t know i’m guarded kind of. i feel like right now, at this time in my life, i need to focus on me. 22? shit i’m just chillin. i don’t need any of that.

how do you go about getting at a girl? do you wait a couple days to text her?

i don’t do that – that’s playing games, i don’t play games. that’s too much. if you’re into somebody, you hit them up to hang out. you don’t wait 2 days because then they might be onto somebody else, you know? shit happens haha. you need to hop on it. especially out here, everything is fast paced. playing games is high school shit.

what do you like in bed?

i kind of like to be in control. i feel like if a female tries too much to be in control then i’ll probably be turned off like ‘what are we doing here?’ haha. i’m not into too much kinky shit like ice and all that shit.

ice? haha

yea i’m not into that crazy shit haha.

do you like going down on girls? you know there’s a stereotype that black guys don’t go down on girls..

well then that stereotype stands true haha. i don’t particularly like it. it’s not the first thing on my mind when i’m going into the situation. if it happens, it happens. it’s very rare.

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what’s the craziest sex story you have?

there was this chick i reconnected with from high school. when we got out of high school we made this arrangement when i would go hang out with her and we would hook up. we used to have sex in weird places, outside and shit like that, but the craziest time was at the beach. i left club moscow and i went to the beach with this girl and she decided we should do it in one of the life guard towers. we go to the towers but it was all grimey, not what we expected, but we looked at each other and figured why not? we had some towels down on the floor so we could handle business and midway through this cop starts flashing its lights on the tower. they were on the loud horn asking if anyone was in the tower. the girl was scared because she didn’t want to get caught. we just pretended we weren’t there and eventually they left. the mood was all fucked up after that like we should go home. the funny part was that my homie was in the car waiting for us to come back and when we finally got back he was all mad for having to wait forever.

so you’re more of a casual dating/hook up guy vs serious relationship kind of guy?

i’m down for a relationship, but.. i don’t know. i was in a relationship but it didn’t pan out, so now i’m kind of like a little salty about that whole thing because i put myself out there. never again (right now).

do you have any final thoughts/last words about sex/relationships/etc?

always be true. don’t bullshit. stay true, stay sincere, stay trill.

PHOTO: SHELBY SELLS

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